What do all popular people have in common? Do they all wear the same clothes? Have the same hair? Said the same thing? Of course not. There are popular people around the world, enjoying their social status at school, work, and wherever they go. They do not all look or act like one another, but they all are a part of a very important characteristic: people skills. Maybe they were born with them, or maybe they learned from their families, but they have them, they have them, and maybe you feel like you're not. Here's how to develop your people skills and begin to become a popular boy!Steps
1 Create a destination. It is great to have friends. If being popular is your goal, you need to know how you will know that you're populer.Apakah when all your colleagues come to know your name? Or would you consider yourself popular when passing wave at you?Ads by GoogleHK Fashion Week F / W 2012 See the latest fashion designs and accessories! 16 to 19 January 2012, Free.www.hktdc.com2 Understand the methods of successful people. Once you have your goals clearly in your mind, continue to examine popular in certain areas and what they do. These people are taking the steps that people do not take the not so popular. Example: A manager is known for good communication with clients. How did he do that? He makes all his presentations are very simple. He was ready with advice and spend time understanding the real needs of clients. These are some of the things she does that most other managers do not do.3 Be Confident. Every person has some drawbacks. Do not let that stop you! Even if you feel that you just are not good, continue to believe. Love yourself and believe in yourself.Do not sit on sudut.Bangun, and get into the spotlight. Do not worry too much about yourself. Get the courage!4
Be willing to step out of your comfort zone.Be willing to step out of your comfort zone. If you are not popular, it's because you're not comfortable doing the things that famous people tend to do - make conversation, jokes, teasing, and in general, involves the possible orang.Anda introspective, shy, or quiet, but to get what you want, you need to change the way you interact with people. In the beginning, which may feel like you're shallow or false, but remember that being yourself is, in essence, all ... about knowing what you really want from life. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be on good terms with most people (which is what really popularity). To be popular, you will need to take some chances (at the social level) usually feel uncomfortable (maybe scary) to you. So be prepared to be bold.5
Be friendly.Be friendly. Popular people are friendly with everybody pretty much - not only their peers, but also the teachers, supervisors, employees of grocery stores, cleaners, parents, children, and generally anyone who is even the tiniest bit of good. (The only people they do not make friends with people who are practically impossible to get along with.) They are in good enough terms that they can hold a conversation, a brief friendship with anybody in the room. There is no reason you can not do that as well.
Talk to anyone and everyone who crosses your path. Smile, say hello, and if they greet you back, ask them how they are doing. No matter where you go, get used to chatting with strangers and acquaintances together, even if it's just for a few minutes.6
Have a good style. Have a good style. No one wants to follow people who have bad fashion sense. If you can not afford name brands, shop at stores that still have the cool clothes at affordable prices (eg charmingCHARLIE, Target, Aeropostale, American Eagle, etc.) If you want your own signature style, bought from the store and mix & match.Everybody loves someone who is not afraid when it comes to fashion.Stay relaxed. Small talk is all about the stick to "safe" topics. Stay away from controversial matters, such as religion or politics. By expressing your views on a controversial topic, you are definitely not popular with people who disagree. Keep the topic of "light".Be polite. Respect people's privacy, do not mix. Learn to read body language so you can see when your questions begin to make them feel uncomfortable. Do not invite yourself anywhere, does not boast, and do not interfere. In other words, do not bother.7 Stop thinking about yourself. Of all the skills of individuals who have been popular, one that none of them can do without is empathy. How well do you relate to other people? If you are so caught up in how they understand that you do not consider what they feel, then you are selfish - not the sort of thing, annoying arrogance of the road, but still, your mind is spinning around you. Stop worrying so much about how you look, how you sound, how do you compare, and start thinking about how others are doing. Do not try to act in a draw to the attention of others; act interested in them. Ask them what will work or school, how their families are doing, how their situation was mentioned some time ago, and so forth. Then touch. Talk to them about how you or someone you know have something similar happen to them, and how they deal with it. Find common ground.8
Give hand.Give helping hand to help. Popular people not only know all the people - they are on good terms with everyone. They set the terms to help people out, and they do not do it in a very striking (they are not martyrs or saints of the community). They do little things for a relationship (in addition to some great things, such as volunteers). They offer someone a pencil when they need it. They closed the gate
1 Create a destination. It is great to have friends. If being popular is your goal, you need to know how you will know that you're populer.Apakah when all your colleagues come to know your name? Or would you consider yourself popular when passing wave at you?Ads by GoogleHK Fashion Week F / W 2012 See the latest fashion designs and accessories! 16 to 19 January 2012, Free.www.hktdc.com2 Understand the methods of successful people. Once you have your goals clearly in your mind, continue to examine popular in certain areas and what they do. These people are taking the steps that people do not take the not so popular. Example: A manager is known for good communication with clients. How did he do that? He makes all his presentations are very simple. He was ready with advice and spend time understanding the real needs of clients. These are some of the things she does that most other managers do not do.3 Be Confident. Every person has some drawbacks. Do not let that stop you! Even if you feel that you just are not good, continue to believe. Love yourself and believe in yourself.Do not sit on sudut.Bangun, and get into the spotlight. Do not worry too much about yourself. Get the courage!4
Be willing to step out of your comfort zone.Be willing to step out of your comfort zone. If you are not popular, it's because you're not comfortable doing the things that famous people tend to do - make conversation, jokes, teasing, and in general, involves the possible orang.Anda introspective, shy, or quiet, but to get what you want, you need to change the way you interact with people. In the beginning, which may feel like you're shallow or false, but remember that being yourself is, in essence, all ... about knowing what you really want from life. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be on good terms with most people (which is what really popularity). To be popular, you will need to take some chances (at the social level) usually feel uncomfortable (maybe scary) to you. So be prepared to be bold.5
Be friendly.Be friendly. Popular people are friendly with everybody pretty much - not only their peers, but also the teachers, supervisors, employees of grocery stores, cleaners, parents, children, and generally anyone who is even the tiniest bit of good. (The only people they do not make friends with people who are practically impossible to get along with.) They are in good enough terms that they can hold a conversation, a brief friendship with anybody in the room. There is no reason you can not do that as well.
Talk to anyone and everyone who crosses your path. Smile, say hello, and if they greet you back, ask them how they are doing. No matter where you go, get used to chatting with strangers and acquaintances together, even if it's just for a few minutes.6
Have a good style. Have a good style. No one wants to follow people who have bad fashion sense. If you can not afford name brands, shop at stores that still have the cool clothes at affordable prices (eg charmingCHARLIE, Target, Aeropostale, American Eagle, etc.) If you want your own signature style, bought from the store and mix & match.Everybody loves someone who is not afraid when it comes to fashion.Stay relaxed. Small talk is all about the stick to "safe" topics. Stay away from controversial matters, such as religion or politics. By expressing your views on a controversial topic, you are definitely not popular with people who disagree. Keep the topic of "light".Be polite. Respect people's privacy, do not mix. Learn to read body language so you can see when your questions begin to make them feel uncomfortable. Do not invite yourself anywhere, does not boast, and do not interfere. In other words, do not bother.7 Stop thinking about yourself. Of all the skills of individuals who have been popular, one that none of them can do without is empathy. How well do you relate to other people? If you are so caught up in how they understand that you do not consider what they feel, then you are selfish - not the sort of thing, annoying arrogance of the road, but still, your mind is spinning around you. Stop worrying so much about how you look, how you sound, how do you compare, and start thinking about how others are doing. Do not try to act in a draw to the attention of others; act interested in them. Ask them what will work or school, how their families are doing, how their situation was mentioned some time ago, and so forth. Then touch. Talk to them about how you or someone you know have something similar happen to them, and how they deal with it. Find common ground.8
Give hand.Give helping hand to help. Popular people not only know all the people - they are on good terms with everyone. They set the terms to help people out, and they do not do it in a very striking (they are not martyrs or saints of the community). They do little things for a relationship (in addition to some great things, such as volunteers). They offer someone a pencil when they need it. They closed the gate
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